A. I got to play the role of a wedding singer.
Yep that’s right, as of last weekend, I’m officially a wedding singer.
It all started when a friend recommended me to a friend who happened to be looking for someone to perform at her wedding- and as a friend of a friend, I was less inclined to turn down the offer. I was hesitant at first, purely for reasons of vanity and pride. Say “wedding singer”, and that cute 1998 movie starring Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore pops into my head. But then Adam Sandler’s character was portrayed as a bit of a loser. And therein lies my prejudice. Did I really want to go down this road? To be honest wedding singers seem to be on the bottom rung of the musician ladder, sharing the space with cover bands as they kick buskers in the head down below. Poor buskers. Actually I really respect them. I got a busking licence last year but was too chicken to go out and use it.
So sure, it’s not what I originally had in mind when I started this Jugu thing, but you know it wasn’t too bad after all. A gig is a gig, and a wedding gig is definitely better paid (in that they pay you at all), and the audience more grateful. Weddings are great, everyone is positive and happy, and it’s one of the best traditions of our culture, the celebration of love and all that.
But then there is the responsibility. The responsibility factor of this job is huge. Ok, admittedly not so much as a brain surgeon or rollercoaster safety technician, but in the context of musical performances, a wedding is pretty much up there. What if they don’t like your music? What if you ruin their big, special day that they have spent months planning and agonising over, a day that they will remember for the rest of their lives? What if you drink a little too much bubbly and slip in an inappropriate joke that grandma doesn’t really appreciate? And as a solo musician, I was feeling the pressure.
The good thing about a wedding gig is that nothing is corny enough. Love was the topic of the night, and love songs are what I write. My song ‘The Deep’ didn’t seem so out of place than in the usual sleezy pub setting of my Jugu performances. I also love classic jazz songs, and I got to get out all my old jazz compilations CDs and in my preparation for the day, I got to take a trip down memory lane with Ella, Dinah, Sarah, Billie and Nina. I sung a shortened version of Etta James’ ‘At Last’ as the bride walked down the aisle, and Nat King Cole’s ‘Love’ for the first dance. I even got to pull out my saxophone for a bit of a solo. The rest was just a usual Jugu set, while the guests sat down to dinner. Easy peasy, and very fun.
And so after all my uncertainty to put on the wedding singer hat, the night was a great success, a beautiful intimate wedding, with very friendly people. The newly weds had even kindly given me a seat at the table, which was really generous of them. A lot of the guests had positive things to say about my music, as well as words of encouragement like “don’t give up”, “follow your dreams” and so on. I had a fantastic chat with the best man – a famous Indonesian pop singer Sandy Thema – who gave some great advice about the music business.
So move over Mr Sandler, there’s a new wedding singer in town.